This site’s text is mostly AI generated and I’m only slightly satisfied with it. It’s all true(ish) but mostly not how I would put it.
🌀 About Me
Since 2019 I’ve been moving around the world, chasing questions more than stability. I’ve been trying to understand what makes relationships work, what gets in the way of love, what home feels like, and how to live in a way that feels honest.
I don’t think of myself as a professional so much as a human who’s trying things out, writing about them, and inviting people along for the ride.
Roles I Play
I play a lot of roles in my life that are very important to me. By far the most important ones to me are son/family member and friend. Other important ones are:
- Leader/organizer
- Parent relationship coach
- Explorer (inner, outer, relational)
- Community member
- Citizen
- Writer
- Nomad
- Traveler
- Hunter
- Supporter
- Competitor
🎁 Offerings
Here are some ways I like working with people:
- Parent relationship coaching — helping adult children untangle old patterns, heal, and find new ways of relating to their parents (and themselves).
- Relational spaces — circling, authentic relating, workshops on conflict, intimacy, and expression.
- Community hosting — dinners, residencies, creating places where people can actually feel each other.
- Writing — personal essays
- Adventures — hitchhiking in Central Asia, a residency in Taiwan, a road trip
❓ Current Questions & Themes
- How do I build roots after years of moving?
- How do we stay honest in intimacy instead of slipping into roles?
- What does it mean to belong to family, community, ancestry?
- How do I become the kind of man I respect?
✍️ My Work
The places I share the most are:
🌏 Taiwan Roots Residency
TL;DR: Join friends for ~6 months in Taipei to reconnect with Taiwanese roots, culture, and family while building meaningful relationships.
After 5 years on the road, I’ve been craving more roots—to live somewhere long enough to be dependable, to host others with steadiness, and to be part of something unfolding over time. Returning to Taiwan recently reminded me how much I want to be close enough to offer care, presence, and hospitality to the people I love.
This residency is a step in that direction—and an invitation to do it together.
Hopefully by the end, you’ll come away more connected to your family and to Taiwan as a place. If we’re lucky, you’ll also leave more connected to yourself—alive in your body, deeper in trust and love, and more excited about life.
Recent Essays
Selected Tweets
📬 Contact
If you want to reach me, the best way is email: